I may be wrong about Sophia, I hope I am wrong, but i have this sneaky little feeling that our little girl isn't going to be a super duper neat freak. I have been trying desperately to get her to clean her room, even tidy it up...but I usually have to ask at LEAST 7 times for her to do it. And by that point I have a clump of my own hair in my hands because it may drive me to madness :) A pair of undies over in the corner, some pj's lying in a heap, a pull-up (a dry pull-up at least!) tossed somewhere, anywhere... The bed needs to be made, etc., etc., blah, blah... Although, I do have to say that I always felt the 'making of the bed' would be the trickiest one for you because, the bed is a bit high and the pillows are European and Queen size, no small feet for a pip-squeak like you... Typically, you drag one of the pillows, over to the bed and tell me that it is just too big and heavy for you to get onto the bed. And pulling the covers up? Forget about it...
So I turned to bribery. While we roamed the aisles of Target searching for a princess doll to give to your good friend Caroline for her birthday, you cried and cried because you wanted another doll. "Mom, I can't just have 2 dolls, I need THREEEEEE." Henry, you cried too...you wanted the police car. Cry, cry, cry...until Henry, you looked at me with those big crocodile tears, cocked your head ever so slightly and said, "Next time mommy?" Henry knows better than anyone how to melt the ol' heart...
In any event, I told Sophia that if she wanted the doll she would have to earn her doll and truly begin to clean up her room without me having to ask 7 times. One or two times is acceptable. ;) She has been doing a great job! That room has never been tidier (well that isn't entirely true...).
Unlike yesterday, I did NOT get the head start on my day that I enjoyed so much yesterday. As a result, I was racing around trying to get myself ready plus the kids. I told Sophia to clean her room and off I went to dry my hair. I returned to Sophia's room and much to my surprise her room was clean and her bed was M-A-D-E! I about passed out... I didn't even have to specifically ask her to make her bed. Covers pulled up? Yes! Pillows on the bed in the right spot? Yes! Undies someplace other than the middle of the floor? Yes! I was just over-the-moon happy and I could tell Sophia was quite proud of herself. Yippee!!! That princess doll may not be too far away after all...
And Henry? I have been trying to explain that he too can get the police car IF he stops hitting, pinching and scratching. He just looks at me and says, "Why mommy?" I think Henry may have a little farther to go... :)